So you really do not want to get pregnant?
Use a condom.
I know right, almost too obvious.
A while ago there was this broadcast message going round about how everyone assumes they are the only one. Emeka is married but has a girlfriend Cynthia, Cynthia is a good girl so he is hitting it raw. Cynthia knows Emeka is married so she has a boyfriend for when Emeka is unavailable, Iyke who she plans to marry. Iyke is a bad boy so he has a side chick Veronica. He believes Veronica is obsessed with him but She knows she is a side chick so she is weighing her options with other guys. You get the picture.
Apart from the obvious risks of infections pregnancy at the wrong time is a lose-lose situation for all parties.
Guys there is a twist to this story, what if your side chick gets pregnant? I am sure you do not want to re enact Usher's Confessions. How do you prevent this?
Always use a Condom.
I know where this method might fail, when both parties are trying to pretend the sex is totally spontaneous. Yes, sometimes it is but some of you know deep down when you are going to get some. Or for some ladies the plan is to resist him time around. I can picture some many scenarios right now, "Baby, i did not even plan this, i did not even bring a condom but you are so irresistible. Seeing you looking all gorgeous does it for me". I believe you brother.
Does it really feel better without a condom?
I bet it does.
Skin on skin but you are going to get burned.
Most of us can cite the dangers of unprotected sex without even thinking does not mean this same majority would indulge in it. The focus now is to avoid getting pregnant.
Let us talk about condoms. I know you know the brands and you can tell me the prices.
Do you know that there is the male and female condom?
The spotlight right now is on the Male Condom.
The effectiveness of the male condom ( chances of not getting pregnant 86% - 97%). Male Condoms are made out of latex but polyurethane and tactylon( both plastic are available).
Pros and Cons
Easy to get and inexpensive, provides some protection against STIs, reliable method for those who cannot use hormonal birth control methods.
Some irritation or sensitivity to latex. Some men complain. May interrupt foreplay.
You can make condoms more fun.
Try these to get maximum pleasure from condoms.
Size matters: The right fit completely changes how a guy experiences sex with a condom. One that is too tight reduces circulation and takes longer to put on ( he can lose his erection) and the condom is more likely to break. If you can not roll the condom all the way to the base of the penis its not large enough. if its oversize it can slip off or the extra material will make the guy feel inadequate.
Try a condom designed with a swirl or bulb ( it will say so on the pack. It may say "Twist" "Pleasure" or "Spiral"). These moderate more friction near the nerve packed head of his penis.
Try Ribbed Condoms
Try Flavored Condoms
Try Novelty condoms
Use Lubricants- water based lubricants are best. **tip** put 2 drops of lubricant in the condom before applying.
Most importantly when using a condom, put your partner at ease, choose the right rubber, keep the intensity high (avoid fumbling or long pauses trying to apply a condom).
I came across this on www.condomania.com
2. Best for Him: Lifestyles x2 Condoms
3. Best for Her: Trojan Ecstasy for Her
4. Most Natural Feel: Durex Extra Sensitive
You may get these brands at recognized pharmacy stores.
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